Real Parents. Real Stories. Real Support.

Parenting doesn’t come with a manual — but it does come with community. At Legacy By Design, we’re here to remind you that you’re not alone. This is a safe, encouraging space where moms, dads, and caregivers can learn, laugh, and grow together through every season of family life.

Parenting isn’t always easy, but you’re not alone.


At Legacy By Design, our mission is to empower moms, dads, and caregivers with practical tools, emotional encouragement, and community connection to help families thrive through every stage of growth.

Whether you’re navigating tough conversations with your teen, setting healthy boundaries, or simply looking for fresh ways to connect with your kids, this is your place to learn, grow, and feel supported. Because at the end of the day… you’ve got this!

Upcoming Classes & Workshops

Learn, connect, and grow with other parents through our interactive classes and workshops.

Each session is designed to give you practical tools and heartfelt encouragement for the parenting journey.

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More Classes Coming Soon

● Communication Strategies
● Having “That” Conversation with Adolescents
● Discipline Strategies that Work
● Instilling Emotional Intelligence
● Parenting Difficult Children

Stay tuned as new dates and locations are announced!

Weekly Parenting Tip

"You will spend more time knowing your kids as adults than you will as children. Make the time count!"

Meet Becky Troyer

Hi, I’m Becky, wife of 31 years, mom to seven amazing grown children, and grandma to seven beautiful grandkids.

I’ve spent nearly three decades as a stay-at-home mom, raising my family and learning (sometimes the hard way!) what works and what doesn’t in parenting.

Along the way, I earned a BS in Criminal Justice and a MA in Human Services Counseling: Parenting and Adolescent/Child Development.

I’m also a Certified Parent Café Host and Certified Lifewise Teacher, passionate about helping parents feel confident, capable, and connected.

Now that my kids are grown, I want to give back—to empower families to build strong foundations and create lasting legacies of love and resilience.

Because parenting is better when we do it together.

Stay Connected

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Listen In: Legacy By Design Podcast

Join Becky and other real parents for honest, encouraging conversations about the challenges and joys of raising kids in today’s world. Hear stories, laugh, learn, and remember—you’re doing better than you think.

Every family is unique. Every parent has their own story.

At Legacy By Design, we’re here to remind you that you’re doing your best—and that’s more than enough.